I hope my divorce experience helps someone reading this: My marriage of 11 years ended 2 years ago and was one of the most, if not the most stressful and painful experience I ever endured. We both decided to call it off as we were no longer happy in our marriage. We were both working […]


My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me via letter. Gruesome! Last year my boyfriend wrote me a letter and said goodbye to me as he headed off for the weekend, giving me a kiss and cuddle as he went and saying love you and see you later, knowing that I would find the […]


My divorce was one of the most difficult things I had to go through, 5 years ago. My husband of 14 years left our home we share with our son because he felt he needed some space. At that time I honestly thought he was going through some kind of middle life crisis, but it […]


Just found this website and what a great place it is! It is so reassuring to know such a supportive place for those going through breakups. This was the 3rd time I have had my heart broken but this time was different. It is now 3 years since my boyfriend at the time delivered his […]


30 yrs of my best friend, my soulmate, my rock, then a 2 yr affair behind my back, tried to work through things, but his heart wasn’t in it. This was a year ago. I lost my job, my family, was really struggling, and he wanted to remain friends ? We met a few times […]


Hi all My boyfriend of thirteen months cheated on me and when I found out I was willing toForgive him but he didn’t want me back. This was 8 months ago. Just when I felt I was having a better day the next day then took it away from me…I cried constantly. The pain from […]


Hi everyone! I broke up with my partner of 9 years, 2 and a half years ago, when our daughter was 6 years old. He went out on a Saturday and never came back, no phone call no txt nothing. His mum phoned me to tell me he wasn’t coming back. I haven’t seen or […]


My girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me last year. It was brutal, I felt like this breakup was somehow destroying me. I kept  thinking about her. I didn’t want to be like this anymore. I thought time was supposed to heal me but in the first 3 months after the split, I […]


Life couldn’t have been better when he was around. I loved him so much I could catch a grenade for him. It all started when he stopped attending to my needs. So many things happened but I couldn’t let go. He broke up with me. It’s been two years now, but at the time it […]


After 23 years of marriage, 3 kids, their father chose his drugs and house parties over us… he enjoyed it too much… Lost my home, lost my mum during our breakup 3 years ago… He still tries to mentality abuse his daughters, but they are learning slowly to deal with him. My son hates his […]