My girlfriend of 3 years recently broke up with me last year. The only thing she could tell me is that she felt we weren’t working anymore and that she was not happy anymore (Which I respect, if you’re not happy you shouldn’t be with someone) But she Immediately started dating one of my friends whom I was always suspicious of!
At the time, she left without taking anything with her so I was the one who, after having to deal with this sudden breakup, had to pack all her things up, which was mega tough, seeing all the memories, all the joy and happiness we shared just gone like that. I felt angry, sick and frustrated all at the same time.
This was the Woman I was going to propose to last year. I just wanted the pain to go away, so could I feel better soon and move on to bigger and better things in life. But the reality was that I was so miserable, I thought I would give up love, so I could save myself another breakup… It was really tough…
What helped most, for me, was talking to my friends and family, loved ones helped tremendously, I stopped putting pressure on myself to feel better and gradually I started going out again and having fun again, I started looking after myself in ways I never cared to do before, it took some time, but eventually I got there! I have been in a relationship for about a month, which means I didn’t give up Love, I wasn’t looking but it found me!
I’m sharing this for the person reading to know you’re not alone. It’s terrible now but try your best to keep moving!
Much love and good luck on making yourself happy, you all deserve to be happy x
#happyafteryou! You too will be saying it!