Get Over Your Breakup



My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me via letter. Gruesome!

Last year my boyfriend wrote me a letter and said goodbye to me as he headed off for the weekend, giving me a kiss and cuddle as he went and saying love you and see you later, knowing that I would find the letter when I got up in the morning.

He refused to speak to me since and I kept going through a mix of emotions.  Acceptance was the hardest thing to do, since this breakup was so out of the blue, I didn’t understand what was happening.

The first couple of months were the worst… I felt lost, desperate for answers and hurting real bad.

But after a while I realised that to accept something I didn’t necessarily have to understand it. And that’s precisely what acceptance is, something that is completely out of my control, I have no choice but to eventually accept it. And that’s what I ended up doing, and once I accepted my feelings as well as my ordeal, things started to feel less heavy, if you know what I mean.

It’s really hard, but with time and self-belief you too can achieve acceptance and recover from this.

Never give up on yourself. You will see through this.

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